The cowgirl (woman on top) position is especially popular with women who like to dominate their partner. It allows them to control the course of intercourse and influence the speed or depth of penetration. However, according to statistics, 2/3 of women do not like to be on top during sex, believing that men want to shift the “hard work” onto them.
After analyzing many articles and forums on the subject, I can say with certainty that these women have simply not found their own version of the cowgirl position (woman on top), of which there are a few dozen!
In this position, the woman is in complete control, the depth of penetration. Try swaying back and forth, rocking your hips to the right and to the left, setting a rhythm, fantasising. Often women get high not only from physical sensations, but also from a man looking at her body, seeing her wriggling, caressing her breasts and buttocks.
What are the pros and cons of the pose?
Trying this position is recommended for every woman, as there is a high chance of finding a position that leads to orgasm. For example, it is possible to lean back, increasing the stimulation of the front of the vagina, where the G-spot is located. If the orgasm is clitoral, it is advisable to lean forward towards your partner and even lie on top of him or her.
The pose will unknowingly take into account the depth of the vagina as well. The cowgirl role guarantees success in many cases if the man does not interfere with her masturbation with his penis in her vagina. Conversely, helping her by caressing her erogenous points and enjoying her figure.
By adjusting the depth of penetration, taking the appropriate angle of inclination and slowing down or speeding up the pace, a woman can easily reach orgasm and get plenty of pleasure. She can hold her partner forcefully in a supine position, giving herself a sense of control.
The position with the woman on top also has many advantages for men. Some men simply like the dominance of their partner, others will appreciate the fact that they can caress the woman’s breasts during intercourse or look at the penis during penetration, getting even more aroused.
If you have no experience of sex in this position, it is better not to start with sudden and strong movements, do everything gradually, gain experience by having slow sex.
Now about the disadvantages. Women often complain about tired legs, pelvic muscles. Many like it when a man is in control, not experiencing any unusual sensations in the cowgirl position.
The horsewoman’s position, especially the reverse one, with all its advantages, is also one of the most controversial. This is confirmed by a team of scientists from a university in the Brazilian city of Campinas. In the journal Advances in Urology, they published a report on an analysis of painful penile fractures reported over 13 years in local hospitals. It turned out that half of them were the result of sex in the rider position. Encouragingly, these events are rare, accounting for only 1-2% of all penile injuries. The risk of injury increases with alcohol intake!
What do men and women like about this position?
- Men love with their eyes and get turned on by what they see. Both in the classic cowgirl position and upside down, he sees a woman from all angles.
- In this position, the man can relax and enjoy the process.
- You can touch a woman’s breasts, stimulate her clitoris, anal opening, touch her buttocks.
- A woman can control her body as she wishes, controlling the depth, the rhythm, the timing.
- The girl gains power over the man, controlling the onset of his orgasm.
What is the correct way to move in the horsewoman’s position?
The horsewoman’s pose is not difficult and, with a little care, can give a lot of pleasure to both partners. It can be used in several ways. In the most classic version, the woman sits on the man in front of her, resting only on her knees. The man’s hands are free, he can actively caress his partner with them, and he can regulate the movement of his penis (i.e. the speed, angle and intensity of thrusts) to his liking.
With the upright movement, it is only the woman who performs the action, stimulating the entire length of the penis, actively inserting and withdrawing it. This is best done on her knees, adjusting the angle.
How to sit in the classic horsewoman’s pose (woman on top)
When moving horizontally, the girl slides her pelvis rhythmically over her partner’s thighs. Leaning forward can increase the stimulation of the clitoris, backwards, and the G-spot.
There is also a variant of circular movements. Moving in a circle, the woman stimulates the head of the penis from all sides, as well as the vaginal walls. You can add a little chaos by alternating all the movements, changing the angle, thereby arousing your partner to the maximum. But you’ll have to work the pelvic muscles.
Some women like to stimulate the clitoris in this position – it is one of the most sensitive erogenous points, with around 8000 nerve endings on its surface. In the horsewoman position, the man can stimulate his partner’s genitals as well as her breasts. If desired, the woman leans back and squeezes the man’s body with her legs, spreading them apart or she can even straighten her legs forward and extend them to her partner’s shoulders. Additional stimulation is provided by the oscillating or rotating movements she makes.
The rider’s position can be varied when the woman leans back, leaning on her partner’s hips to lighten her pelvis a little and give her more freedom. Supporting herself with all her weight on her knees, the woman has complete control over the depth of penetration and the position of the penis. At this time the man can caress her thighs and buttocks with his hands.
Rider’s pose upside down
The inverted cowgirl position can provide satisfaction for both parties. Many women appreciate it because it has no eye contact with their partner, they are free to indulge in sexual dreams and also masturbate without feeling guilty because the man cannot see it. The upside-down rider position also pleases men, especially those who like to look at a woman’s buttocks.
The woman sits on her partner, with her back to him, and moves, raising and lowering her pelvis in any way she likes, guided by her partner’s reaction. This position also relaxes the man and he can bend his knees, giving the woman support.
The woman, leaning back more, changes the depth of penetration and the type of sensation that arises in this inverted riding position, her body weight resting mainly on her legs. The man can establish some control over the movements performed by his partner. Care should be taken not to bend the penis too much, this can cause pain and even the aforementioned injuries, such as a fractured penis.
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The inverted rider’s pose is satisfying when a woman sits down with her partner’s legs bent at the knees, showing her entire back and buttocks. The man can take hold of her hips and buttocks to increase or decrease the speed of the movement. The woman can slide her arms forward and lean on the man’s hips, thereby reducing the pressure of her pelvis on his body, a pose also called inverted Asian horsewoman.
The horsewoman’s pose when pregnant
The rider position can be used by a pregnant woman even in the third trimester, because during the relationship nothing disturbs her belly and uterus, her sensitive breasts are not irritated, and the ability to control the depth and speed of penetration is gained.
