The lotus pose in sex or another name for “lotus unity” is one of the most sensual poses that allows you to fully enjoy contact with your mate.
It has many advantages, among which the inherent simplicity of the classic version stands out. This means that no specific physical preparation is required before the “first try”.
How to sit in a pose
Described in the Kama Sutra, the lotus position for sex allows both partners to remain mobile. This means that intercourse is available at any time, so that the sensations can be varied.
In order to start intercourse, the man needs to sit on the bed and cross his legs, assuming the lotus pose as close as possible to the familiar yoga pose. The woman sits on her partner’s hips, putting her shins behind his back.
The classic lotus pose
Once the penis has entered the vagina, there are several possibilities:
- the partner moves her pelvis back and forth, snuggling up against the man, or arching her back slightly away from him;
- the man helps his beloved with his hands on her buttocks and with gentle movements of his hips;
- the girl is held on her partner with her hands and he takes the initiative by working her pelvis and hips.
The only thing that this position may seem uncomfortable at first is the low stability of partners who do not support each other. If, however, there is a love of eye contact and a constant exchange of caresses, there is nothing better.
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Bedtime variations on the Lotus theme
To diversify the experience a little without changing positions too actively, the same Kama Sutra suggests some smooth transitions:
- During coitus, the partner leans back and lowers her back to the bed;
- with her feet and palms, she can raise her body slightly above the bed in a bridge-like fashion;
- With her back relaxed, she can rest her feet on her partner’s torso or place her shins on his shoulders.
The latter variation allows you to experience the full beauty of the lotus pose even when pregnant, as fusing in it does not increase stress on the spine and does not require any special flexibility on the part of the woman.
Lotus pose option 2
For those couples with good stretching skills, there is another option very similar to the previous ones:
- she lies on her back with her raised legs crossed in a lotus imitation;
- he straddles her thighs with his knees bent, resting his lower torso against his partner’s shins;
- Keeping his weight in his arms and not leaning too close to his beloved, the man gently penetrates her.
Yes, it requires a certain amount of skill and stretching. But this interpretation of the lotus pose is one of the most “delicious” ways to diversify intimate life for a pregnant woman.
Chair, sofa – everything is suitable
To give the man a more secure footing, you can move to the edge of the bed. In this version, his legs are bent at the knees and fully supported by his feet on the floor. Her position does not change fundamentally: sitting down facing her partner, the woman wraps her legs around his waist or buttocks.
The only caveat: in the heat of passion the girl should not lean back too sharply. A partner who does not expect such a change of centre of gravity may simply not have enough time to catch her beloved and prevent her from falling.
Lotus pose on the edge of the bed
The lotus pose on the chair looks the same as the one on the edge of the bed. Except that a woman’s legs are also in contact with the floor, which opens up the possibility of seizing the initiative. It is enough to work on his shoulders and the splash of orgasm will most likely hit both of them at the same time.
On the sofa your partner can also take the reins in her hands that gently wrap around his neck. The advantage of this furniture is the backrest, against which there is no risk of losing your equilibrium.
Taking up the position, as for sex on the edge of the bed the woman with mild pressure forces her partner to deflect back and moving her hips begins to rule the ball.
The second option is that he holds his partner’s waist, preventing her from falling. She rests her feet on the sofa cushion and leans back and begins to rock gently back and forth.
Lotus pose on a chair option 1
Her palms can wander over his body, but it’s still best to back it up by holding on to his neck or shoulders to begin with.
Lotus pose on a chair option 2
Unity without furniture
Not yet tested the comfort of your living room carpet? The lotus pose will help correct that. The only adjustment made to the classic is the position of his legs: they are not crossed, but half-bent and resting their feet fully on the floor.
The partner sits on top, and they press against each other, enjoying the unique angle of penetration.
Next, there are two options. One:
- he and she lean back, resting with straight arms on the mat;
- she arches her back and raises her pelvis slightly;
- he begins to move his hips vigorously.
In the second case, the woman takes an active position with her legs under her and leaning closer to her partner. The only difference from the cowgirl pose is that the man should try to keep his back upright.
Another option:
Practical advice
The lotus union is enjoyed by many couples precisely because of the hard-to-reproduce angle of penetration of the penis into the vagina. Any of the variations guarantees tight contact of the head with the front wall of the vagina, where the notorious G-spot is located.
That is why it is better to get your partner aroused beforehand, as she is guaranteed an unbelievable experience.
Penetration is not very deep, but this is compensated by contact with the two most sensitive areas: the glans and the G-spot.
Additionally, breathing exercises performed during intercourse can increase the pleasure for both partners. It is important for her to control her body and tense her vaginal muscles in time with her breaths.
Instead of an epilogue
The lotus pose in intimacy is one of the most sensual positions that does not tolerate a rush of sudden movements. It involves gentle, undulating vibrations and equally smooth changes in positions.
For this reason, some variants are grouped in sets that allow you to “flow” from one position to another without excessive body movements.
Having mastered such smooth transitions, in time you can join the chain with something more comfortable for active sex with intensive movements. In the meantime… Forget about speed, have slow sex.
