One of those poses that is always on everyone’s lips. But in reality, not many people do it. If for some reason you don’t like the “69” you’ve tried or are bored with it, there are a few more options that you might like and even become a favourite.
Be relaxed, don’t be afraid to do something wrong. Your partner’s reaction will guide you. It is advisable to practice this pose in a homey, cosy environment, without being distracted by the minutiae of everyday life. This is the only way to achieve a mutual orgasm.
The most preferred version of the “woman on top”, while you have little practice. In the rush of orgasm a woman can bite a man’s dick, concentrate to prevent this, there have been cases like this.
It happens that at some moment it gets so good that one of the parties leaves the other side to caress, and you get caresses only in one side. So many people say that they don’t really like this position, or they say that “I get distracted by my sensations, and I can’t concentrate in any way; or I think a lot about how to make it nice, and I can’t enjoy what’s happening together with me”. Either way, whatever you choose, be sure to experiment and try out what you like best.
The 69 position comes to the rescue if partners want to diversify their sexual experience. This uncomplicated pose has become widely known among couples because of its ease of doing it and the pleasure it brings. Of course, this posture is a sign of the partners’ trust in each other and allows for both pleasure and pleasure at the same time.
Why 69? Like a pair of digits 69 – one partner plays the role of number 6 and the other plays the role of number 9.
To make a long story short, there is a joke – “Once a man listened to a woman and did the opposite”. The couple is positioned opposite each other, gaining comfortable and mutual access to the genitals.
The 69 position is not considered the most comfortable position to achieve orgasm, as the mutual caressing distracts the partners, preventing them from concentrating on pleasure. But it is great for foreplay.
Sex in the 69 position gives you the opportunity to caress each other’s genitals in any way you like, to explore and discover new heights in your relationship. The slow pace is great for long sex, you can bring your partner literally to the point of exhaustion.
And the Kama Sutra, recommends this kind of sex as a staple during pregnancy!
Features of the pose
In classical oral positions, the pleasure is enjoyed by one partner, here you enjoy both.
If one of the participants gets tired, you can always add your hands, toys or some other stories. This pose offers a very beautiful view and is most comfortable practising a technique such as “deep throat”.
It is best to go to this position after a short preparation. The man slowly begins to run his fingertips over the woman’s body, paying more attention to her erogenous zones. Then, with a kiss from top to bottom, gently move down to the genitals and stay there for a while.
Then, depending on the peculiarities of the position, the partners change position to facing each other. For the most part, the preparatory work does the man, but the initiative is allowed to give the woman applying mirror action.
The top position is the best position for the woman’s body. It is in this position that she gets full control over her partner’s genitals. She is comfortable controlling the depth of penetration of the penis and engaging in stimulation of the testicles. In this position the woman will be fully confident that the weight of her partner’s body will not cause her discomfort.
It is much easier for a man in this position to concentrate on getting pleasure. He can simultaneously receive caresses and give them away at the same time. This is not the case with a woman. It’s much harder for her to focus on two processes at the same time. So, to get the highest degree of pleasure, you will need to spend time practising it.
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